Finally it’s the time we have been waiting for. It’s the year 2020 and here we are! Are you one for making New Year’s Resolutions? Made any for this year or are you saying, ‘Who cares?’ Well, I can personally say I’m not one for making New Year’s Resolutions but this new decade we finally approach I feel this is the time I say yes, ‘LET’S DO IT!’ One thing that I started to realize that I didn’t quite approach in the year 2019 is literally self love. I mean yes I did push more into accepting myself for who I am, but never to the next level. One thing is in the dating scene, guys are intimidated by me. I never really cared to acknowledge that. I really just thought people were just saying that but honestly they were right. I am now all for conquering and intimidating guys since they are not the ones for me, but to easily eliminate the ones who can’t handle someone like me. When someone starts to realize how independent you are and how happy you are being single it is like a slap in the face to someone who wants to mold someone the way they want them and to take care of them. So with all that since I’m not trying to get too much involved with my dating life, back to self love.
One thing I told myself is that with 2020 already here and the fact that it’s a new decade, I really need to focus on creating the life I want and need to make me happy. So instead of working on losing weight and eating better and what ever else is the main typical resolutions for the new year, I’m here to say yes those will always be standard goals I set any time of the year just not in the new year, but to really focus on me and only me.
I am dedicating this New Years start with manifesting what I am set to do through my journey of life. I’m planning on being more active socially wise through different social medias along with my blog. I am making the effort to ground myself more through things like hiking, walking my dog or riding my bike. I honestly will say that I have lost touch with being active outdoors this past year. Incredibly strange for me to lose touch with nature when it makes me so happy. Another thing is showing more of self love to myself. Obviously I love who I am but not enough that it shows for myself to allow others see that I finally accept myself. As many times I do a tarot spread about what is in store for me for the new year or what I need to do for myself and its literally about me. It straight out tells me how I need to work on myself, push the things I want out there, I need to go out in nature more often, and I need to maintain my balance in my soul and energy.
This is a step by step pursuit but I know if I keep pushing I will succeed. Nothing ever happens over night and by damn if it happens really quick. With patience and making things a habit, sure enough in time things will begin too manifest that you will most likely conquer your goals. I’ve bought a daily planner journal and another book to help me keep track. Also posting on social media is a way to remind myself to keep track of my progress. How else will I continue to push and motivate myself to keep striving for the best I can be without any sort of documentation? I have a bunch of stuff to do but literally need a way to organize it all.
After this little talk and how New Years is a way to change habits from the start, always make your resolutions small enough that it doesn’t stress you out or make it hard for you to stay with it. Think small. Think of things you can do easily. Now if it’s becoming healthier or working out then sometimes having a partner or a coach or something to make you accountable for proceeding to make healthier lifestyles. All things are doable, it’s just how to go head on with the situation.
The Healing Raven 